Our vision.
Our mission.
The mission of Red Thread is to empower others who are experiencing or anticipate a high conflict divorce by educating them on the family court system. This is accomplished by preparing them for their initial exit, and court journey while also introducing radical acceptance. My goal is simple—to assist others w their case, to bring awareness to the false term parental alienation and how to safeguard against it, to educate on all types of domestic violence and to assist with laying the foundation of a successful court case, on which a peaceful life can be built. My strategy is straightforward—to assist in determining which battles are necessary to fight, which battles should not be fought, and when the fight is necessary, to relay skills that will help ensure success. My essential core value is to provide resources and techniques that navigate and prevail, while always keeping the best interest of the children front and center.
My role in assisting you includes exit strategy services, trial and paralegal consulting, assisting with seeking/obtaining legal advice in anticipation of your family law case, or in assisting your lawyer in your in the development of your family law case. I can provide services in one of two ways, first, by helping you and by working with your counsel at your their direction. Either way, my assistance can help prepare you for your anticipated case, or assist with work that is current.
The significance of Red Thread.
The legend of the red thread spawns from Ancient Japan. The basis of this legend is that, thanks to the Gods, everyone’s little finger is tied to an invisible red string that will lead him or her to another person to which the other end is tied and with whom they have an important story. According to legend, this is true to all people, regardless of time, place or circumstance.
Along your string other people’s threads will cross, the lines will touch and sometimes become tangled for a time. The end of the string will always be there, attached to that one person waiting for you to reach it. The string may tangle, contract or stretch but it can never break.
The legend of the red thread teaches us, that through a labyrinth of encounters there is a pre-determined and perfect path set out for us by the thread; connecting us on our irrevocable route towards our ultimate destination. Along the way progress, assistance, direction or clarity will be found on the edge of another person’s string with whom you have crossed.
The chance encounters, the brushes with fate, and the criss-cross of stories, all create a limitless scarlet tapestry of woven threads that would not only be beautiful to behold but awe-inspiring and brain-fuddling to try to unwrap.
- Written by Caree R.
My vision.
My vision is simple. The red thread has brought us into each other’s lives for a reason. It is now “our” important story and our truth. With what we have learned on our journey and in our village, with the resources we have as one, together we can help you do more than just exist. You can succeed, reclaim and rebuild yourself and your life. I want to bring strength and knowledge to others who need it and not just empower them, but also help them empower others.
My role.
My role as a divorce consultant means I can walk alongside my clients in the following capacities, to save them a great deal of time, emotional energy, and money. Simply, I provide skilled trial and paralegal consulting at the direction of, and supervised by, your lawyer to assist in trial and case preparation, or to act for you on the legal advice provided by your counsel in your case.
I assist in planning exit strategies which are unique in every situation. I provide information concerning documents that should be gathered. Each case is different. If there are questions that need to be confirmed or answered by a legal professional or therapist, I provide options that enable connection with individuals that truly have the best interest of the children front and center with no personal agenda or gain. Knowledge is power!
Who is hired is important! I provide pre-divorce assistance. Attorneys are one of the most important assets. I provide the necessary questions that need to be asked when interviewing legal counsel. Most are not properly trained or aware of how to navigate high conflict personalities, situations that involve abuse or NPD.
I assist in creating divorce teams from the best and trusted lawyers, therapist, forensic accountants and realtors.
I teach effective communication through correspondence that involves little emotion and appropriate responses, but with subtle pleasantries in order to avoid false allegations that would cost additional time and money.
When requested by clients or counsel, I am present at mediations and court appearances. Attorneys have many cases. I am tuned in to the exact details of each client’s circumstance. Simply, more awareness and more detail help with a better outcome.
Documentation is critical to each case ongoing. In anticipation of your family law case, or during it, I assist your legal team concerning how to document in a manner that is useful, impactful and easily accessible to attorneys, therapist and anyone that documentation would be necessary for.
Strategy is important when dealing with NPD and or a high conflict divorce. I assist In anticipating and mitigating abuse tactics that may occur along the way while providing resources that assist with education concerning these personality types especially in the court arena. They are very predictable! It is possible to stay one step ahead. One step ahead saves you time, money and emotional stress. It only takes one to be considered high conflict in family court.
I help minimize the emotional toll a divorce takes by creating a manageable “to do” timeline concerning court documents, discovery and budgets.
I work in all arenas of divorce globally. I specialize in high conflict and cases that involve false allegations of parental alienation.